LENGTH OF THE PENIS
Most youngsters think that their penis is too small, although they have no standard which to compare. In American books it is generally stated that the penis which is four inches at the time of erection is considered within the normal limit and interpreting from this we can say in Pakistan even a penis which is three inches long during erection would be appropriate enough, considering the difference in the heights and weights of Pakistanis and Americans.Some people believe that even in the retracted state the penis should be long. We usually reassure them that the penis is like a natural antenna, which comes out when opportunity for sex is imminent but which disappears when there is no such opportunity, and thus in the retracted state, even if the tissues are hardly visible that should not be considered abnormal. There have been many conjectures as to why most males worry about the penis being short. A number of causes have been put forward. One is that if one looks at his own penis in a standing position than the structure of the body is such that the abdomen obstructs the view and therefore, the penis look smaller, while if one is looking across at another person’s penis there is no obstruction of view and the other penis may look larger, even though if we had measured, it would be the same.Secondly, people start worrying after they see genital organs in blue-films, which appears large, either due to the inclusion of special kinds of males who have chosen because of their abnormally large genitals or due to some photographic tricks the genitals may appears larger than life.WHAT CAUSES IT?
For many years, sex experts have tended to say that premature ejaculation is caused by early conditioning. In other words, the man’s early, rushed (and perhaps furtive) sexual experiences had to be quick so as to avoid detection. The idea is that this conditions him to climax as quickly as possible. However, our own surveys have found that many men with PE did not have rushed early sexual experiences – though others say they did. It’s worth noting that from an evolutionary point of view, it’s probable that males who climaxed quickly were more likely to have children. In other words, if you were a caveman who came very fast, you’d stand more chance of impregnating your woman and enlarging your tribe. Some men seem to be highly triggered right from the start of their sex lives, and we have encountered instances where their fathers were much the same. Therefore, we feel that the tendency to reach orgasm quickly may possibly be inherited rather than learned. Finally, there’s no question that anxiety or ‘nerves’ play a part in many cases of PE. If you’re nervous, you’re likely to come too quickly. This is why many males have discovered for themselves that a small amount of alcohol eases their nerves and makes them less likely to climax prematurely. But we wouldn’t recommend alcohol as a treatment. So, what can be done for PE?
PIC PIC PICLastly the youngesters may not have taken into account the individual difference in the body organs which naturally occur between people; even in our country some people are tall, above six feet, and others are short and may be only five feet, in at the same way, the length of the genital organs may also very somewhat.However, it must be remembered that as far as fertility is concerned, the length of the penis is no obstruction; also as far as one’s own pleasure during intercourse is concerned the length of the penis has no bearing on that, and as far as giving pleasure to the wife is concerned even for that the length of the penis is not important because the sensitive areas of a woman are not deep in the vagina, but on the surface of the vulva and adjacent area as well as the clitoris, labia majora, labia minora and only an inch or two of the superficial entering portion of the vagina, and this area can be easily reached by a penis which is only three inches when erect. Moreover, it has also been.Pointed out that the vagina, in its natural resting phase, is not a hollow wide tube but rather a closed space, in which the walls meet each other and completely obliterate the space, thus even a small penis can and will produce the require pleasure sensations.A patients said that his penis was small for his height and build saying that it was four to six inches when it was erect. He said that he had seen other people’s penises and felt that his was smaller. The therapist replies “unfortunately, in our culture, many men are concerned about the length of their penis. For men, there appears to be only one size penis, too small.” The patient felt that because he was big in size his penis should also be bigger than others. The therapist replies “Not necessarily. There have been a number of studies comparing body build and size with penis size and the results have shown that there is no direct relationship between the two”. Concerning the feelings that others have a larger penis than the person himself, the therapist replies: “There are several things involved here. For one thing, when you look down at your own penis, it’s foreshortened as compared to looking across someone else’s.”Look at the picture above.
When you are looking at your own penis. From such an angle it is only natural that it will look shorter as compared to looking across full at someone else”. “Another important fact is that there is no direct relationship between the penis in its flaccid, or limp state and when it is erect. In fact, there is a tendency for the smaller flaccid penis to lengthen more upon erection than does the longer flaccid penis when it becomes erect.”There are variations between men in limp penis size just as there are variations in nose or finger lengths. However, there is no way of predicting how long each penis will be upon erection. Usually, when erect they end up being fairly close to the same size.Masters and Johnson have reported that the greatest increase from the limp to erect state occurred in a man with one of the smaller penises, while the smallest increase after erection was observed in a man with one of the larger penises. Under full erection, both organs were identical in length. The average erect penis in U.S.A is around five or six inches but the length is not important, usually an erect penis beyond four inches is considered normal in America and for Pakistan the figure may even be three inches.
Average length of female vagina is about three to four inches therefore a penis of three or four inches is quit adequate.
The vagina, moreover, is not a large hollow tube. In fact, it is not an open space, but rather only a potential space, because the walls of the vagina usually touch each other. The marvelous thing is that the vagina is capable of adapting to whatever size penis is inserted. If you think about it, it can adapt to something the size of your baby fingers, as well as something the size of baby’s head, given sufficient time. Another fact that is important is that there are very few sensory nerve endings inside the vagina. There are some pressure nerve endings in a muscle that encircles the vagina, but this is only about an inch to an inch and a half deep. Most of the erotic sensations that a woman experienced come from the clitoral area, the large and small lips, and the immediate area around the entrance to vagina